Love Stories Deserve Theatre
Your love story is unlike any other, so why should your ceremony be cookie-cutter? I specialise in eternal bond ceremonies that sparkle with your personality – whether that be Gothic Romance, or a steampunk spectacular. Maybe it is something inspired by your love of classic literature, such as that of Jane Austen, the Brontë’s, Mary Shelly? Whatever it is, it speaks to you and your authentic selves.
My Approach to Weddings
I don't just officiate ceremonies; I help craft theatrical celebrations of your love. With my background in performance and storytelling, I work with you to create moments that will have your guests saying "I've never seen a ceremony like that before!"
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Colour, Movement, Music, Poetry
These are vital elements that bring ceremonies to life. I love incorporating diverse cultural traditions, meaningful rituals, and creative elements that reflect your shared passions.
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Direct Guest Involvement
Moving beyond having guests simply listen, I enjoy creating ceremonies where everyone present becomes part of your celebration in meaningful ways.
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Authentic Storytelling
Drawing from my academic background and love of narrative, I weave your individual stories into a ceremony that celebrates both your journeys and your shared future.
The Beauty of Intimate Ceremonies
There is something powerful and empowering about a ceremony that publicly acknowledges an identity and the recognition of kinship. Whether this be a celebration of an identity that more closely aligns with one’s gender, the blending together of families, welcoming a new person into a family (of any age), or a new animal companion into one’s home. These ceremonies are deeply personal, emotional experiences that will be treasured forever.
Perfect for:
- Gender affirming renaming
- A coming-out milestone
- Honouring someone return from a significant personal transformation
- Celebrating the creation of a new home/shared space
- Family blending/ Step-family formation
- Marking the moment a child or young person is welcomed into their new family
- Welcoming an animal companion into their forever home
Creating the perfect intimate moment
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Story-Focused Ceremonies
These intimate ceremonies become beautiful opportunities to really share a story meaningful to you and those with whom you are sharing.
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Unique Rituals
We can incorporate meaningful rituals that might feel too personal for larger audiences – perhaps recreating a precious moment or incorporating elements from your journey.
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Atmospheric Settings
I love working with couples to find venues that contribute to their ceremony's atmosphere. From windswept beaches to historic libraries, the right setting becomes part of your story.
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Relaxed Timeline
Without large guest logistics, we can create ceremonies that unfold at a natural pace, allowing for spontaneous moments and deeper emotional connection.
What's Included
- Travel for an initial conversation (Your “Tea and Biscuits Moment”) within 75 miles of Blackpool included (We can negotiate any additional costs if your ceremony is outside this range). You can choose to have your “Tea and Biscuits Moment” online.
- Travel to your wedding, elopement, or vow renewal venue, within 75 miles of Blackpool included (We can negotiate any additional costs if your ceremony is outside this range)
- Up to three planning and preparation meetings (online or in-person)
- Rehearsal session (ideally at the venue)
- Up to three ceremony script revisions
- Plain ceremony folder as keepsake
- Optional: Personalised hard-cover folder with your names on the front, containing your wedding script and photos from your ceremony planning (additional £45)
- Any special ritual artefacts (costs discussed individually)
From £700
- Travel for an initial conversation (Your “Tea and Biscuits Moment”) within 75 miles of Blackpool included (We can negotiate any additional costs if your ceremony is outside this range). You can choose to have your “Tea and Biscuits Moment” online.
- Travel to your wedding, elopement, or vow renewal venue, within 75 miles of Blackpool included (We can negotiate any additional costs if your ceremony is outside this range)
- Up to three planning and preparation meetings (online or in-person)
- Rehearsal session (ideally at the venue)
- Up to three ceremony script revisions
- Plain ceremony folder as keepsake
- Optional: Personalised hard-cover folder with your names on the front, containing your wedding script and photos from your ceremony planning (additional £45)
- Any special ritual artefacts (costs discussed individually)
From £700
- Travel for an initial conversation (Your “Tea and Biscuits Moment”) within 75 miles of Blackpool included (We can negotiate any additional costs if your ceremony is outside this range). You can choose to have your “Tea and Biscuits Moment” online.
- Travel to your wedding, elopement, or vow renewal venue, within 75 miles of Blackpool included (We can negotiate any additional costs if your ceremony is outside this range)
- Up to three planning and preparation meetings (online or in-person)
- Rehearsal session (ideally at the venue)
- Up to three ceremony script revisions
- Plain ceremony folder as keepsake
- Optional: Personalised hard-cover folder with your names on the front, containing your wedding script and photos from your ceremony planning (additional £45)
- Any special ritual artefacts (costs discussed individually)
From £700
The Process: Building Our Rapport
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Initial "Tea and Biscuit Moment"
Once you contact me, I'll send my initial questionnaire along with details about Rapport Celebrancy. We'll arrange our first conversation within two weeks – I prefer calling these "conversations" rather than consultations. I'll bring the biscuits (dietary requirements considered!) if you provide the tea, and we'll explore your vision for your special day.
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Collaborative Creation
Over up to two months, through regular video calls, emails, and in-person meetings, I'll build your ceremony script. Depending on your location and interests, I might incorporate special discussion sessions that could include natural cosmetics demonstrations, cocktail making, or hairdressing – making the planning process part of the celebration.
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Vendor Coordination
I work closely with your chosen suppliers, offering suggestions where needed, to ensure everything flows seamlessly on your special day. Your ceremony should feel cohesive with every other element of your celebration.
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The Perfect Day
I arrive an hour and a half early to connect with all your suppliers and ensure everything runs smoothly. My goal is that you feel completely supported and can focus entirely on celebrating your love.
Specialising in Unique Celebrations
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LGBTQIA+ Ceremonies
As someone who served as an LGBTQIA+ staff representative for five years, I'm particularly passionate about creating inclusive, celebratory ceremonies for the queer community
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Creative & Alternative Themes
Steampunk, gothic, literary, musical, scientific – whatever sparks your creativity, I'm excited to incorporate it meaningfully into your ceremony.
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Cultural Fusion
I love researching and respectfully incorporating traditions from different cultural backgrounds, creating ceremonies that honour your diverse heritage.
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Historic & Unusual Venues
From castle ruins to quirky spaces with character – I believe your venue should contribute to your ceremony's personality.
